I was 25 when I had Dana, 28 when Erin was born. A few years later, I had baby fever again, but - well, Andy didn't, so we were a happy family of 4. I took the business of raising the girls very seriously, and really tried to enjoy my time with them as they grew into toddlers, little girls, preteens, and yes, even teenagers. A wise woman told me, "Enjoy each age you go through, for each one does have it's advantages." And so I tried. We played, colored, sang, built, etc. as each season rolled into another.
Yesterday, I went with Jackie and the 5 little ones to Burger King. We had a wonderful time, laughing, waving, even comforting one who got scared when she couldn't find her sister. It was a happy, peaceful time with my friend.
Now, today as I reflect on that visit, I wish I had Dana and Erin back again for just one day - to enjoy them again as little girls, learning life all over again; and I wonder if I could do it "better" with the wisdom of years. I know I would be more patient, and slower with my demands; but overall, I think I did a pretty good job - they are wonderful, well-adjusted, God-fearing women in their own successful lives.
Sometimes, though, I just miss my little girls.
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Niagara Falls, Sept. 2012
After 29 years of teaching, I am now retired.... What to do with the rest of my life is before me and unanswered as yet. For now, after living in and hour by hour world, I am relaxing and enjoying this new stage. I'll keep you posted!!
The lovebirds - 36 years in the making!!
Niagara Falls, Sept. 2012
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- Amy
- After 29 years of teaching children, I am now retired.... What to do now with the rest of my life is undecided and exciting; but for now, no decisions need to be made. I have a new outlook on life, and the future is bright - so, let's go!!
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3 comments:
I so understand! I think I could be better. I learned so much raising mine and then teaching has taught a good bit, too. I would love mine back for awhile.
I would listen more.
I would react less.
Love more
and worry over the house less. And that is just for starters!
I would listen more.
I would react less.
Love more
and worry over the house less. And that is just for starters!I suggest this site to my friends so it could be useful
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I woudl like a 'do-over' again of those early years. I learned a lot from those hectic years, but learned it all a bit too late, I fear. I, too, would listen more, react less, and play with them more. The laundry and housecleaning can wait - they aren't important in the whole schem of things.
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